My wife and I often fight over sex or lack thereof . Now that I think of it, this may have been since the beginning of our relationship. Sex is very important to me. I view the lack of sex is a symptom more than anything else. Your blog is very helpful in disecting these issues. I am not looking for huge romance but, just some attention. We only have sex every 6 months. Something seems wrong. I suspect she is getting it somewhere maybe with another person or masterbation is ok. We are still together but, the divide grows. I am trying to hold it together but not sure how this ends up. At this point I don’t even ask for sex with her. I am thinking about having an affair too. Am I being selfish? Your blog is insightful. Thoughts?
Julia, I hope you don’t mind but I’ve started a blog to help me express what I’m going through with my marriage and I mentioned your site (you can’t even call it a blog at this point) in my blog. You, your site, and your active user community have helped me immensely in helping me figure out what I’m doing wrong and what I can do to correct some of the wrongs that have been done.